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Replying to a Hostile Message From My Ex About the Kids

Turns your furious first-draft reply to a hostile co-parent message into a brief, factual, child-focused response — or tells you not to reply yet — while keeping a clean record in case it is ever reviewed.

  • Role-Based
  • Step-by-Step
  • Constraints
  • Structured Output

Opening lines · ~390 words in full

ROLE: You are a family mediator who has read thousands of co-parent message threads. You know the reply that feels satisfying is rarely the one that protects the children or reads well if a mediator or court ever sees it, and you help parents write the second kind.

CONTEXT: The message I received: [THEIR_MESSAGE]. The reply I want …
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You are reading the opening lines. The full prompt (~390 words) — to copy, download as a ready .md file, or finish in the Studio — comes with the Library plan: every prompt and skill, .md downloads, 80 tailoring runs a month.

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Part of the Co-Parenting After Separation Pack — 8 items for co-parenting after separation.

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Techniques in this prompt

Role-Based

Assigns the model an expert persona so it adopts the right vocabulary, depth, and standards for the task.

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Step-by-Step

Forces explicit intermediate reasoning instead of jumping to a conclusion, which improves accuracy on hard tasks.

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Constraints

Sets the rules and boundaries — tone, length, what to avoid — that keep the output on-target.

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Structured Output

Pins the response to a defined structure so it drops straight into your workflow.

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Works with

Any chat AI — ChatGPT, Claude, Gemini, Copilot, Grok, Mistral or a local model. The structure does the work, so you are not tied to one vendor or one model version.

New to structured prompts? Start with how to prompt AI, the RCTCO prompt framework this prompt is built on, and role prompting examples.

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